1-2 pm: Ceremony
Lincoln College
2:30-4 pm: Drinks Reception
The Perch
4-7:30 pm: Wedding Breakfast & Speeches
The Perch
7:30 pm: Evening Reception
The Perch
Midnight: Carriages
Somewhere else
About us
We met in October 2009 at Lincoln College. Romantically, neither of us remembers how. Jack suggested making something up for the website. Becky was against it. We met on a volcano. We met on the moon.
We quickly became close friends. Jack wrote Becky letters when she had to take a couple of terms out in 2010. We had a lot in common, despite reading very different subjects. We performed at open mic nights together and kept each other company in the library.
We got engaged in December 2019. We picked the ring out together, settling on the first one Becky tried on and speeding up the timeline considerably as she got too excited! Jack then surprised Becky with a proposal on a walk with Tess the dog in Beckenham Place Park (who managed not to eat the ring). This was followed by sushi and champagne in Bromley and a special FaceTime to Bristol, arranged by Jack ahead of time.
Lincoln is really special to us and the perfect place to begin our ‘next chapter’. We both knew we wanted to get married there even before getting engaged. What we didn’t know is that we needed a special licence from the Archbishop of Canterbury. We have to get married in the daylight, in case one of us tries to swap the other out last minute.
We can’t wait to share our special day with you, celebrating our relationship and our marriage. 25th June 2022 baby! We would be honoured if you could be there.
Venue
Lincoln College
The Perch
Travel
On the day
Travel will be provided from the ceremony to the reception. The Perch has taxis on call for the end of the night. If you want a big taxi (e.g. 8 seats), we recommend that you pre-book with 001 taxis.
Getting there
Driving
Central Oxford is a nightmare to drive around/park in. We recommend using one of the Park and Ride sites. Note! Parking at the Perch is very limited, we do not recommend trying to park there.
Trains
Oxford train station is a 15 minute walk from Lincoln College.
Lodging
Some of the wedding party will be staying at The Old Bank Hotel in Central Oxford.
Here are some other hotel options:
The Mitre!?, Central Oxford.
Mercure, Central Oxford.
Malmaison, Central Oxford.
Travelodge, Multiple locations.
Wedding Party
Pip
Maid of Honour
Elana
Kaos demon
Anna
Bridesmaid
Georgina
Bridesmaid
Iliana
Bridesmaid
Leah
Bridesmaid
Sarah
Bridesmaid
Janek
Groomsman
Jim
Groomsman
Jon
Groomsman
Steve
Father of the Bride
Howard
Father of the Groom
Ceri
Mother of the Bride
Julie
Mother of the Groom
Skittle
Psychopomp
Tess
Mrs. Wags
RSVP
Registry
You absolutely do not need to bring a present. After the last year, it is honestly true that your presence in celebrating with us is really all we want.
But we are planning on Japan as a honeymoon... so... if you want, you can contribute to our honeymoon pot. We set up a Monzo account for this under Becky's name: Account number: 54868623, Sort code: 04-00-04. Leave your name so we can send you a thank you :)
FAQ's
COVID-19
Update, June 2022: We ask that you take a lateral flow before coming, so that we can all be as safe as possible.
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
We recommend you arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony. The Missing Bean (opposite Lincoln) serves good coffee.
What happens after the ceremony?
The ceremony will finish at 1:30 pm. There will be some group shots at Lincoln and then guests will be transported by bus to the Perch for 2:30pm, for welcome drinks and canapés. The Bride and Groom will take photos for an hour at Lincoln, and then join the guests.
Will the ceremony/recption be indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony will be indoors. The reception will be in a marquee in the Perch’s garden, which has lovely outdoor spaces.
Will food and drink be served at the Reception?
Yes. Welcome drinks and canapés on arrival from 2:30-4:00pm, followed by the wedding breakfast with sharing platters, wine and fizz. In the evening, food will be provided for both evening and day guests, with fizz for evening guests on arrival. The marquee has a bar where guests can purchase more drinks during the evening. Note! The bar is cashless. Contactless payment is possible.
Will there be vegan/vegetarian/gluten free/special diet options?
We can accommodate dietary requirements - just let us know when you RSVP.
What happens after the wedding breakfast?
There will be a 45 minute break while the Perch sets up the dance floor. Evening guests will arrive from 7:30pm, ready for dancing!
What happens at the end of the night?
We have to turn music off at 11:30pm and leave the Perch by 12am. There are taxis available for booking from the Perch to help you get back to your accommodation safely!
Can I take photos during the wedding?
We ask that you don’t take pictures during the ceremony, as we have a photographer on hand. After that, we would love you to take pictures and share them with us afterwards!
Is there a dress code?
No, but Becky will look very pretty (written by Jack). Maybe not jeans?
Are children welcome?
We hope you will understand our decision to make the wedding child-free, and take the opportunity to let your hair down and celebrate in style!
I have other questions! Who can I contact?
Ask Becky! (or Jack at a pinch).